Feelings & Expectation

Just got back home from my yima's house after three days.
And as I was trying to update my blog, I saw this blog post by a girl older than me not more than a few years.

This is the post that I read and I think most of it it's true and it's real life.
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So, Feelings and Expectations.
Both are different thing right?

But when you are in a relationship, these two usually comes in a package.

Feelings ^^
1.): the one of the basic physical senses of which the skin contains the chief end organs and of which the sensations of touch and temperature are characteristic .
*that is TOUCH.
2.): (oh,i love this)and emotion state or reaction.
3.): the undifferentiated background of one's awareness considered apart from any identifiable sensation, perception, or thought ; the overall quality of one's awareness ; conscious recognition.
*uh hum, SENSE.
4.): often unreasoned opinion or belief
5.): capacity to respond emotionally especially with the higher emotions
6.): the character ascribed to something
7.): sympathetic aesthetic response
8.): (save the best for the last) feel.

Expectation ^^
1.): the act or state of expectation.
*in expectation of what would have happen.
2.): something expected
3.): the state of being expected

So? What do both of them have in common? And what is the relationship between them?

In every relationship, not only boys and girls, even friendship, or the ones you have with your family members, once you're in a relationship, you'll naturally start to set up a expectation for this someone.

Like hoping your friends to do something special for you during your birthday.
Or expecting that you're boy friend is going to understand you under any circumstances.
Oh, and expecting your family member to put up with your temper or giving you whatever you want.

All of this, the E word, expectation comes naturally.

Expecting someone to be good, to do the things your way, to understand you.
But hey, no one owns anyone.
And I'm not saying that expectation is a bad thing.

But excessive of it could be hurting by the end result.

I'm not a hypocrite saying that I don't have expectation for others, I do, sometimes I do expect some things from that someone.
But in the future, I'll try not to over do it.

No more knows the future, so, let's just go with the flow.
*Take note, I am not a credible source, just a girl and her thoughts.

One and only : Miss Dorky aka ShieN

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